Seduction of Spirit

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This is my second blog and in this blog I will be sharing some spiritual knowledge as well as talk about life in general. I believe all life is spiritual and part of the One Reality. Therefor any subject is ultimately a spiritual one. I look forward to sharing my experience with you and I hope I can enrich some lives in the process. Namaste.

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How to Get Your Ex Back

Posted By on March 9, 2010

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This is a subject most of us have probably thought about at one point or another in our lives,  how to get your ex back. Whether you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back or how to get your get your ex girlfriend back doesn’t really matter, because it’s the same mechanics at work. First of all it’s important to make sure that it is what you really want. Sometimes it is better to move on to something better. But if you really feel like your ex is the one for you it may be worth it. It may be the case that you just have some personal issues to work out. And until you do, you may struggle to get your ex back.

We often don’t want to admit our own flaws until something drastic happens. Breaking up with your ex can be an opportunity for personal growth. It is important to have the right attitude if you want your ex back. If you feel sorry for yourself or think that you are a failure in relationships, you will not create the right vibration to get your ex back. Your vibration is simply the energy you emit, and that is crucial to get anything in your life, including getting your ex back. The reason you broke up in the first place is because you did not emit the right energy. Since you are the one that wants your ex back, you are the one that needs to do something about it.

If the problem was with your ex, you would not want them back. Especially if they were the one that dumped you. Only you can truly know the reason you break up and fix it. This is a cliche, but when you are happy by yourself, you will attract whatever you need. But when you feel like you need your ex and can’t live without them, you are sending out the wrong signal. You can’t allow your happiness to depend on them, because that will be fatal to your chances. The first step is thus to sort out your lack of self love and return to wholeness. Then you can send out the right vibration which will attract your ex back.

You can do so by visualizing being back together and thinking about all the good times you had. When you visualize it you are using the law of attraction to manifest them back into your life. But like I said, you must first be happy in your own company, because the law of attraction won’t work for you when you feel unhappy and miserable. Get into that state where you feel happy and independent, and your ex will be attracted to that. Nothing is as attractive as someone who is happy and content by themselves. It magnetizes people to you, including your ex. Then you will never fear losing your ex again, because you will know that your happiness does not depend on them.


Dedicated to Lady Gaga

Posted By on March 2, 2010

Well since I made a website of Lady Gaga today, and wrote a post about her in my Federer Blog, I thought I might as well make this a Lady Gaga day and write about her in my Spirituality blog as well. First of all let me say, I love Lady Gaga. Why? I think Gaga is a very genuine, real person, something that is pretty scarce in this world. When she was at high school she got teased and she felt out of place, like a freak by her own admission. I can certainly identify with that, and many others can as well. People get teased and put down for many reasons in the society we live in.

Weather it be for their sexuality, race, or just being who they are. I’m sure many people reading this can identify with that, at least to a certain extent. Gaga got teased because she was either too provocative or too eccentric, and look where she is now. This is why she is such an inspiration to many. Also, many of these rock stars went through the same thing when they were younger, but they now carry a negative message through their music, as a way to get revenge for what happened to them. Gaga uses her stardom to help and inspire others.

She is bisexual herself and is a great inspiration to the gay community in particular. It seems in our society there is still a lot of taboos about sex, which is unnecessary. It also seems that when someone acts in a way that is not in accordance with society’s norms, then they are looked upon in a negative way. If history has told us one thing, then it is that the people who changed the world were always the ones being laughed at and teased before they changed the world. There is no better example than Jesus Christ himself. I mean no one was teased and spat upon more than he was, yet he is the most famous person in history now.


Like I said, I went through some similar things, and because of it I am a much more mature and wise person. So I think Lady Gaga’s message as well as my own is to not be scared to be different, and to love yourself for your own uniqueness. Because Gaga was comfortable with herself and did not allow those who teased her to get her down, she is now an inspiration to many through her music. I hope in the future people will try to be different instead of the same. It is only through our uniqueness that we can become who we were meant to be and become great.

I leave you with this inspirational quote from the great Albert Einstein:

-Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it when a man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence.


Federer vs Nadal a Spiritual Rivalry

Posted By on February 27, 2010

For those of you who isn’t into tennis, the Federer/Nadal rivalry is one of the biggest if not the biggest tennis rivalry the world has ever seen. And the two players couldn’t be any more different in terms of the way they play, their mental make ups, and personalities. It truly is a rivalry of contrast, which is what makes it so interesting. Also, Federer plays right handed while Nadal plays left handed. Federer is perhaps the most physically and naturally gifted player in the history of the sport. He  floats effortlessly across the court like a butterfly, and his strokes are beautiful and graceful.

Nadal on the other hand is all about muscle and power. His movements are not nearly as graceful and effortless as those of Federer, and his strokes are ugly and unorthodox. What Nadal lacks in talent and grace though, he makes up for in pure desire and fight. He is the ultimate warrior and very strong in the mental department. He is also very strong in the physical department, but because he doesn’t move as graceful as Federer and plays defensive tennis, his body is now starting to break down at the age of 23, while Federer’s body is still fine at age 28.

Their paying styles are also completely the opposite. While Nadal plays defensive tennis from 5 meters behind the base line and feeds off of his opponents mistakes, Federer stands almost on the base line and forces his opponents into mistakes or hits winners. In their mental outlooks Nadal is much more confrontational than Federer. Before the match he goes through this whole routine and makes everyone know that he is going to take control. He also jumps up and down in front of his opponent at the coin toss. During play he pumps his fist real hard in an intimidating manner when he wins an important point.

He is a very physical in-you-face kind of player. Federer on the other hand is a little more subdued, more of a gentleman. He is not as in-your-face as Nadal. He prefers to make the racquet do the talking. As far as their personalities off court go, Nadal is surprisingly down to earth, while Federer is often been labelled as arrogant, although I believe that is an unfair label in a sport where confidence and arrogance is the name of the game. Federer is more confident and honest than he is arrogant. So what has all of this to do with spirituality?

Well if you think in terms of soul and ego, there is much to learn here. Federer has had a long successful career so far, the most successful in the history of the sport. One thing about him stands out above all. His main motivation for playing tennis is his love for the game. Not for the money, fame, or even the records that he is constantly breaking. For him that is just a by product for doing what he loves to do. And we know that love equates to the soul. This has allowed Federer to make the best possible career choices. Because he thinks first and foremost about his love for the game, he does whatever he has to do to play for as long as he can.

He does his tournament scheduling in a way that does not burn out his body or mind. Whenever there is a health concern, he takes enough time to recover. He is in touch with his body and listens to it’s wisdom. He loves the game as a whole and doesn’t think only of his own immediate ego needs. No one likes to be injured and sidelined, but when you look at the bigger picture, it’s always better to make sure you recover properly. The ego does not think like this, it wants everything and it wants it now, and it wants it all for itself. This is where I think of Nadal.

Now don’t get me wrong. Nadal is a great champion and a great guy, but there are lessons to be learned here. Nadal tends to think in terms of immediate gratification and ignores the bigger picture. He also doesn’t listen to his body’s wisdom. Time after time he keeps over scheduling. He plays a lot of tennis for someone with such a taxing game style, and he doesn’t adjust his schedule even after he gets injured. I always get the impression that he is thinking about thing like money, fame, and such outer things. This is the big difference between Federer and Nadal.

Federer is self motivated, while Nadal is motivated by outer things. There is just so much to be learned here. Last year Federer broke the record for the most grand slam titles in history and won the career slam when he won the French Open. He had done it all, and many people thought he would start to lose motivation. But because Federer is not motivated by outer things like fame, fortune and records, this did not happen. This year he was back to his very best, winning the Australian Open to claim his 16th grand slam title. Everyone thought because he got married, had children, and broke the most important records, he would lose motivation, but they were oh so wrong.

Federer loves tennis too much to lose motivation that easily. Nadal on the other hand got injured at the Australian Open again. His body just keeps breaking down in his quest to chase down Federer. Again that is the wrong reason to be competing. It was never Federer’s goal to be better than anyone else, he just played because he was in love with the game, and in the process became the greatest ever. Nadal’s mission in life is to be better than Federer, and now he is starting to pay the price. He just cannot stay injury free, and it looks like he has a chronic knee problem now.

So what is the most important lesson to be learned here? I think when you do what you love and do it for the right reasons, everything else falls into place. It’s always important to stay true to yourself and not to sell out to outer things. Fame, fortune, records, and those type of things don’t last. Love, which is the soul, last forever. All the outer things eventually fade away. They don’t last because ultimately they are not real. What is real is the soul and as long as you stay in touch with it, you will always be fulfilled.